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Guest Relations

Handling Unreasonable Requests

Judge the request, not the guest: assess what can be adapted and what must be refused, then Listen, Empathise, Explain, Offer and Escalate.

Overview

Sometimes a guest asks for something the hotel cannot or must not do. This course, built from the Dyafa Hotels & Resorts training deck, shows colleagues how to protect the guest and protect the hotel at the same time.

You will learn to focus on the request rather than the person, to sort requests into those that can be adapted and those that must be refused, to follow a five-step professional refusal, to offer workable alternatives, to use calm and steady language, to know when to refuse and when to escalate, and to avoid the mistakes that make a situation worse.

Source training material

Dyafa Hotels & Resorts

What you will be able to do

  • Judge a request against safety, policy and fairness, not the guest
  • Sort requests into those that can be adapted and those that must be refused
  • Apply the five steps Listen, Empathise, Explain, Offer, Escalate
  • Offer a workable alternative that keeps the guest's goal without breaking limits
  • Refuse or escalate correctly when safety, law or privacy is involved

Requirements

Suitable for any guest-facing colleague; completing a basic guest-service course first is helpful.

Curriculum

The Request, Not the Guest 1 lessons · 6 min
  1. video Focus on the Request and Assess It Preview 6 min
Refusing Professionally 2 lessons · 11 min
  1. text Five Steps and a Workable Alternative 6 min
  2. video Calm Language and Common Mistakes 5 min
Firm Boundaries 1 lessons · 6 min
  1. text Know When to Refuse and When to Escalate 6 min

Frequently asked questions

Is there such a thing as an unreasonable guest?

The deck says no: there is no unreasonable guest, only an unsuitable request. The request may seem normal from the guest's point of view, so judge the request, not the person.

What should I do if I am not sure whether a request is allowed?

Do not promise anything and ask your supervisor for support.

Which limits can never be negotiated?

Safety, the law and privacy. Requests that endanger safety, break the law or regulations, violate privacy or security, harm another guest's rights or involve abuse, harassment or prohibited activity must be refused.

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Guest Empathy

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This course inside a full programme

Most teams take this as part of a department programme that ends in one verifiable certificate.